Friday, September 21, 2007

Just A Little Patience...

Ok I’m in one of those preachy moods again folks. Get ready for a barrage of sprung crap.


Since the beginning of time, mankind has scuffled with the vast ironic tragedies and persistent obstacles that are stubbornly attached to the long dance we call life.

The approach to handling these problems vary from a scale of subtle and gentle to insistence and violence. Perhaps it stems from the remnants of a primeval age, when men used to drag the women they fancied home by their hair after knocking them unconscious with a Flintstone bat.

The objective is Success.

The questions are “How much patience does one have? How long can one wait for the day he finally meets his goal?”

I would venture to say that patience, is mandatory (at least for me) just for the fact that I use it for the benefit of my self-interest. And I have 3 reasons why.

1) One who acts impulsively always subjected to ridicule at the end.

2) Hot heads and cold hearts never solved anything

3) Best things come to those who wait

It makes you look stupid

Need I say more? You tell your supervisor the office can’t be accessed. You throw a tantrum thinking that it was your colleagues who hid those documents you needed to hand in by a necking deadline and you throw the monitor against the wall because your sick of your plight. Turns out you tapped the access point with your EZ-Link instead of your pass. And you forgot the papers were in the other drawer. You’re broke, jobless, in debt for the broken monitor and the papers were rejected because you simple write nonsense when you’re mad. You’re laughed at and you become the lunch topic. None of your colleagues call you in fear of humiliation for being associated with you.

Impatience and petulance has portrayed nothing but stupidity and immaturity in the above “scenario”. If you waited a while longer to apprehend the situation, you wouldn’t have looked as ridiculous.

Nothing can be resolved

All issues can’t work to your favour once you’re impatient. Girls look upon guys who are impatient as pricks and feel a sense of imminent danger when in their vicinity. If you’ve only gotten to know her name and your already looking for avenues to access her shorts than you know you’re a man who can’t wait. And usually those who don’t wait - don’t get any.

If you don’t want to end up sitting on the toilet seat waxing your carrot, wait a little longer. You’ll be surprised at your level of progress when you choose to take things with her one step at a time.

Its Rewards

Many things that you actually thought you could solve by throwing a tantrum - which only worked against you. The longer one perseveres, in dealing with a big difficulty, the greater the glory one will find in surmounting it.

Priceless



As a conclusion, I certainly hope many shall take my social message into practice however; those who DO wait are NOT to wait in complacence but are to remain sweating their efforts into making their lives more fruitful. Patience is simply another key element into success along with other achievements. You need it to learn, you need it to socialize, its just something that will earn you more respect when you have it (patience) in considerable amounts.


Calm and relaxed - FUZZ

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